Sunday, October 2, 2011

Gaining Perspective

Thank you all for your comments and thoughts to yesterday's post. This may sound ridiculous, but I have a hard time posting about sad and more personal things so the support has meant a lot. Even though I write about what's going in my life for the entire internet-world to read, I'm actually a pretty private and introverted person so it's difficult for me to "put it all out there." It really shouldn't be though, because you all are great and wonderful.



Now that I've had a little time to digest Nemo's diagnosis, I think I'm starting to gain some perspective on the situation. The reality is, this would have happened to Nemo no matter who he was with and there's nothing we could have done to prevent it. It still really sucks, but at least he's with us and I know that we will do the absolute best we can by him. At least with us I know he's in the best hands possible. And furthermore, I feel lucky for it. Even though this is scary, and even though it'll be more work than I anticipated, Nemo's my dog and I'll always be happy to have him. He's one cool little gargoyle looking dude and he's brought a lot to my life.

It does Nemo no favors to grieve for him or treat him differently. Right now he feels good and that's the most important thing. The news is very sad - it still hurts to think his life-expectancy has been cut so short - but it doesn't do anyone any good to dwell on it more. We have a good idea of what we need to do and we're doing it. It's time to move out of the "damn this sucks so bad" phase and into the "do what we gotta do and try to have fun while we're at it" phase.

So once again, THANK YOU TO ALL OF YOU. Give a big smooch to your pups for me and know that Nemo's doing well for now and is in good hands.


9 comments:

  1. Give Nemo a big smooch for us

    Kari
    dogisgodinreverse.com

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  2. I'm catching up on blog-reading and just read your last post. My heart dropped into my stomach for you, but it sounds like you're dealing with this as best you can right now. I wish I had some advice or something to offer you, but I haven't experienced this particular situation. I know one thing's for sure, you guys will definitely give Nemo the best life possible and he's lucky to have you to take care of him!

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  3. I just read your last post and i am so sorry to hear about Nemo. I personally or professionally haven't dealt a whole lot with this in dogs but it sounds like you are well informed and I'm glad you have gained some perspective. It's never easy when our companions are sick. Hugs to you and lots of kisses to Nemo. I like to kiss my Sammy right between his eyes :) Pitties are the best snugglers!

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  4. I think your attitude is admirable, and it will go a long way toward making however much time you will still have with Nemo as joyful and memorable as they can possibly be. I know he could not be in better hands, and I'm sure he knows that, too.

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  5. nemo is so sweet! and your perspective is so right.... if his prognosis is what they think, he is with people and pups who love him no matter what. still thinking of you, kate!

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  6. You are a great mama - Nemo is lucky to have you!

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  7. Catching up on blogs today and just read your post. Big hug to you and Nemo!

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  8. I personally know how tough situation is. My 10 year old basset-hound Chloe also battled this condition for a few months before we needed to put her down. Your plan to care for Nemo (small meals, limiting exercise and monitoring his blood sugar) is exactly what you should be doing. My only recommendation is to keep a close any eye on Nemo's behavior. We noticed that Chloe would become very aggressive (which was completely out of character for her) a few minutes before she would have a seizure. When that would happen, we would give her tablespoon of karo syrup to get her sugar levels up thus preventing a seizure. This is only a temporary fix, but it did help maintain her quality of life. You are doing great during this difficult time. Best of luck!

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  9. So sorry to read about Nemo. I share your pain having gone through a similar experience recently and think you have worked out the very best way to deal with everything for yourselves and Nemo.

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